Why Do I Feel So Discouraged When Everyone Around Me Is Better?

I often wonder about the essence of our struggles. Is it truly because there's nothing we love or nothing we're good at? Can we never become more knowledgeable, talented, or better at something?

Truth be told, most things don’t come naturally to us. While some skills and talents might be innate, many others require hard work and consistent practice. Yet, I found myself in a challenging situation. I possess a basic understanding of some history but lack a career or a family. Moreover, I faced a battle with opiates that almost defeated me.

Instead of feeling discouraged, I remind myself that things will get better. Don’t give up; listen to some thoughtful, intelligent drum and bass, play Dark Souls, make a to-do list, or read a book. Enjoy watching funny videos and let something encourage you.

Each person is unique, and there's no one quite like you. Comparing yourself to others is a common practice, yet it often leads to feelings of inadequacy. It's not about not having talent; it's about the lack of self-belief.

The media, through TV and Internet advertising, constantly tries to make you feel inadequate to sell their products or images. These images aren't built by you; they're carefully constructed by others to control your perception. Only you are truly in control of yourself.

Identifying Your Skills and Talents

Instead of comparing yourself to others, focus on identifying the skills and talents you enjoy. Here’s a step-by-step guide:

Consider what you love to do. What activities bring you joy and satisfaction? Evaluate your current level of knowledge and skill in those areas. Are there gaps you can fill through practice and learning? Determine what steps you need to take to improve and achieve success in those areas. Make a plan and take consistent action towards your goals. Be patient and persistent. Success is a process, not an instant achievement.

Overcoming the Lack of Self-Belief

The main issue is often not a lack of talent but the lack of self-belief. One must first believe in oneself before seeking improvement. Without self-confidence, seeking edification is futile. Similarly, discovering one’s purpose and inclination requires a belief in one's inherent gifts.

Reflect inwardly instead of comparing yourself to others. When you look within, you'll discover your untapped potential. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and growth. Trust in your abilities and make the effort to enhance them.

Final Thoughts

Life is a continuous journey of self-improvement and growth. Embrace your uniqueness and believe in your potential, even when it seems like it's the hardest day. Find your niche, and remember that you are the boss of yourself. You have the power to control your destiny. Keep working towards your goals and stay encouraged.