The Faces of Politics: Kindness and Cruelty in Personal Encounters

As a society, we often idealize politicians, viewing them through a lens of either political diagrams or media coverage. However, personal encounters with politicians reveal a more nuanced reality - encounters that can be both touching and troubling. In this article, we will explore the experience of meeting both nice and mean politicians, drawing from first-hand accounts to provide a broader understanding of political interactions.

The One Who Was Unkind

My first encounter with a mean politician was deeply shocking. This individual exhibited racist behavior, going so far as to be explicitly labeled as a racist. Such behavior was not only disappointing but deeply disturbing. Meeting someone who promotes division and hatred was a stark reminder of why it's important to critically examine the political views of the people we support. This experience left me feeling sad and disillusioned. Despite the outcome, it highlighted the need for personal accountability and ethical standards in politics.

The Nice Politicians I Have Met

Contrasting this negative experience, I have had the pleasure of meeting two exceptionally nice politicians in the past. During my time as a young individual, I had the opportunity to interact with Senator Lautenberg and Senator Booker of New Jersey. Both were members of the Democratic party and equally kind in their dealings with me.

Senator Lautenberg, a household name in New Jersey, was known for his open-minded approach, often engaging in spirited yet respectful political debates with my mother, who was a strong supporter. Although we disagreed on some issues, Lautenberg's demeanor was always considerate and polite. His kindness extended beyond debates, as he showed genuine interest in the well-being of the community.

Sometime in 2007, I met another representative of the Democratic party, Cory Booker, during a mentoring program for children in the DYFS system. Initially, Booker was only known as a future political figure, but he impressed me with his unparalleled kindness and dedication. Our conversations were solely about helping the children, and he never once veered off course to discuss politics. This experience left a lasting impression and demonstrated the positive impact that a leader can have beyond their political role.

Both Senator Reagan and his best friend, whom he met when Reagan was still an actor, were also noted for their kind disposition. Their mannerisms and actions suggested that they prioritized building bridges over erecting barriers. These personal interactions reinforced the belief that genuine kindness can be a powerful force in politics, fostering a more unified and compassionate society.

Lessons Learned and the Future of Politics

Reflecting on these encounters, it is clear that our political interactions can offer valuable insights into the personal qualities of the individuals we elect. Being kind and respectful can make a significant difference in how a politician is perceived and their ability to lead effectively. However, personal encounters also highlight the importance of a constant examination of one's own biases and the need for continuous improvement in political behavior.

While these stories showcase the spectrum of political behavior, they also underscore the potential for change. Kindness and understanding can be cultivated, and with this, we can aspire to create a more compassionate political environment. In an age where divisiveness can be rampant, the stories of nice politicians like Lautenberg and Booker serve as reminders that politeness and consideration can still flourish in a world dominated by polarized discourse.

As we move forward, it is essential to support and champion those who continue to prioritize kindness and respect in their political endeavors. By doing so, we create a society where meaningful connections and constructive dialogue can define our political landscape.